I've gotten an email from a female friend of mine that wanted me to keep her name Anonymous...but she asked a question that many of my females friends have asked me..."If my boyfriend (or husband) enjoys Anal Sex, does that make him gay or bisexual?"Ladies, the answer to that question is ABSOLUTELY NOT.
Many straight men have made it clear over the years they they prefer anal rather than vaginal sex. It's no secret, these men have no explanation other than the fact that it "feels good".
Now the real secret is making Anal sex "less painful". LOL
Honestly ladies (and curious gentlemen) there's no such thing. Anal sex will always be painful, but there are ways to make that pain pleasurable.
You've heard this many times, and it can't be stressed enough, but you have to RELAX! Relax, Relax, Relax, oh and if I forgot to mention, Relax.
Tensing up will make this a terrible experience, trust me.
To the fellas(and butch lesbians): It'll help, but not required, to slide your tongue up the anus. This establishes trust between you and your receptive partner.
Also, it's best to ease your middle finger up the anus, with the the help of your saliva (or lubrication if you refuse to eat ass LOL). Never put more than 1 finger up the anus, no matter what you've heard. 2,3, or 4 fingers can rip the sphincter
causing pain and blood. Easing the finger in the anus trains the receptive partner and prepares them for the grand finale.
Lubrication is extremely important! Never use lotion, cocoa butter, Vaseline, or soap. These things eventually dry up, making the experience painful, especially if he's not a minute man.
Water based lubricant is your best bet. My favorite brand is the Astroglide brand.
Don't ask how I know...Just know that I know.
***Safe Sex people!!! Anal Sex is dangerous without latex condoms and water based lubricants***
Hopefully this advice makes your anal sex experience, especially if it's your first, pleasurable.
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